Loneliness
Is it in loneliness that we search for love? Or is it in search of love that we feel our loneliness? This morning I pondered over this matter... A friend of mine was in search for the greatest love of all, supposedly found it. Yet such great love did not fill him and he found himself constantly at work in order not to feel the emptiness that nestles within. Then I have another friend who constantly feels lonely and so he searched out love to fill his emptiness. There are loves everywhere at his fingertips. All he has to do is just reach out and call it his own. Yet he seems not able to see it and so he went on searching...
Why do we feel lonely? What do we suppose to do about it? What is this about loneliness and love? Is it always goes in a pair? Does love suppose to fill up that emptiness that we feel in ourselves?
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>>Does love suppose to fill up that emptiness that we feel in ourselves?
What do you think? Do you feel lonely?
True love is an elusive thing. For some it never exists, for others is exists only fleetingly. In rare cases it exists for a lifetime. For others it is a confusion between love and lust. To paraphrase..."better loved and lost than to never have loved at all". I'm not sure this is true, since to have loved and lost leaves pain and emptiness that is very hard to recover from. Perhaps the search for love is a way to fill up that emptiness. I identify in part to each of the people you write about. Yours, B
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